John 11 begins with an introduction to Lazarus, a close friend of Jesus, who was very ill and on the verge of death (11:1). Mary and Martha, Lazarus’ sisters, sent a message to Jesus asking for His help (vs.2-3). Martha and Mary did something profound with their concerns. In the midst of their storm, they brought their pain, fears, and hopes for the future to Jesus.
They knew that Jesus cared for them and would want to help in their time of need. When Lazarus didn’t recover before Jesus arrived, they even brought their disappointments to Jesus (vs,21-22, 32). When we walk through our storms, and things don’t turn out as we had hoped, God invites us to bring all of our doubts and our disappointments to Him. He would rather that we be honest, bringing our whole selves to Him, disappointments and all, than to turn away from Him during our times of need.
When we do this, we begin to see that Jesus has purposes that go beyond our pain. Jesus had a plan for Lazarus (vs.4), that came from a place of love for this family (vs.5), even though it moved at a different speed than Martha and Mary had hoped (vs.6-7). It’s a great reminder that God’s love is always the bridge that connects His purposes for us and His providential timing in our lives. Jesus also showed His love and compassion for Mary and Martha when He entered their pain and wept with them (vs.33,35). What a beautiful depiction of how God feels when we suffer. We aren’t alone in our suffering. We are aided and supported by the God who created all things and keeps track of every tear in a bottle (Psalm 56:8). In times of hardship, we may not understand what God is doing, or even His timing in deliverance, but we can always trust that He is working from a place of love and to display His glory in our lives.